"3. Ask your child to solve your problems
Share all of your worries, concerns, and relationship problems on a daily basis. Ask them for advice and act helpless in the face of solving your own adult concerns about work, money, relationships — and especially sex.
Always present yourself as incapable of taking care of yourself and your own problems. This will ensure that your child will feel emotionally burdened by your issues."
Road to being a villain carved of stone.
Souce: http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2012/08/03/8-surefire-ways-to-emotionally-screw-up-your-kid/